Key Lessons

Let’s summarise what we’ve learned.

Key Lessons

  • The inner critic is part of your threat system, not your truth. It’s designed to protect you from failure or rejection but often overreacts and creates unnecessary stress.
  • Self-compassion improves motivation, not just mood. Kind, honest inner dialogue supports learning and perseverance, especially under pressure
  • You can interrupt the inner critic with a 3-step reframe. Notice the thought, ask what you’d say to a friend, and choose a more nurturing version
  • Changing your inner dialogue is a habit. It takes practice, but each reframe is a step toward clarity and self-compassion.